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The Klein Sexual Orientation Grid

2006-07-03T10:43:00.000+08:00

Klein Sexual Orientation Grid

I scored an average of 4.62

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Heterosexual

Bisexual

Homosexual

Meaning

This result can also be related to the Kinsey Scale:

0 = exclusively heterosexual
1 = predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual
2 = predominantly heterosexual, but more
than incidentally homosexual
3 = equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 = predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally
heterosexual
5 = predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual
6 = exclusively homosexual

Summary

The idea of this excercise is to understand exactly how dynamic a person's sexual orientation can be, as well as how fluid it can be over a person's lifespan. While a person's number of actual homo/heterosexual encounters may be easy to categorize, their actual orientation may be completely different. Simple labels like "homosexual", "heterosexual", and "bisexual" need not be the only three options available to us.

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The Multidimensional Scale of Sexuality

2006-07-03T10:37:00.000+08:00

The Multidimensional Scale of Sexuality

According to my answers, it is likely that I identify as
Homosexual
or equally,
Past heterosexual, currently homosexual.

Complete set of results

Homosexual:		2
Past heterosexual, currently homosexual:		2
Homosexual with some heterosexuality:		1
Sequential bisexual:		1
Asexual:		0
Concurrent bisexual:		0
Heterosexual:		0
Heterosexual with some homosexuality:		0
Past homosexual, currently heterosexual:		0

Information

The Multidimensional Scale of Sexuality was devised by Larry Kurdek, B. Berkey and T. Perelman-Hall. It is an extension of the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid, recognising that sexual identities can change over time, people can identify with more than one sexual identity, and that asexuality is a valid sexual identity. The Multidimensional Scale of Sexuality was published in the "Journal of Homosexuality" in 1990.

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The Five Love Languages

2006-07-03T10:23:00.000+08:00

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Quality Time.

Complete set of results

Physical Touch:		11
Quality Time:		9
Acts of Service:		4
Words of Affirmation:		4
Receiving Gifts:		2

Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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Your Handwriting

2005-12-21T23:45:00.000+08:00

What does your handwriting say about YOU?

Visited Countries

2005-10-10T20:30:00.000+08:00

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Traveller Profile

2005-10-10T20:21:00.000+08:00


	Your travel type: Travel Yup The Travel Yup likes exotic and adventurous travel, but prefers big cities with fast paced life. He has a keen interest in other cultures and always brings home a few souvenirs. Shopping in Bangkok, getting a tailor made suite in Kuala Lumpur, that's the kind of thing the Travel Yup is into. Even though he likes to get away, he prefers his travels to be comfortable.
	top destinations: Beirut Paris Venice	stay away from: Hampi Ciudad Perdida Darien Gap

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It's the time of the year again

2005-09-10T00:55:00.000+08:00

Once again, it's the time of the year again, & I'll be reminded of my loneliness, my memories... sometimes, I wonder, what am I exactly re-visiting the same thing every year? Am I waiting for something to happen? Am I reminiscing my past?

"Star Light "

You beckon to me
I am drawn to you
I'd love to hold you tight
but I know it can only be a deadly embrace

Your presence lift my spirits
though I know you can never be mine
like a gem in the deep recesses of my heart
having you by my side is heaven's grace

I long for you
your absence is ever gnawing me in my soul
and when you finally turn your back on me
all that is left in me is your face

In memory of a very special occasion every year, and someone that meant something to me

FCUK Test

2005-06-14T15:59:00.000+08:00

" The good fuck"
You are 65 fuckable!

You're about as fuckable as most people, which is not bad. Actually, it's quite healthy! You know how to act and what's appropriate. You know when it's the time and place for what. And people can use that to see you erotically. It's no surprise that you can attract a good number of people. You're what they want! A realistic babe who knows when to get a bit wild! Yeah, I'd fuck you!

My test tracked 1 variable How you compared to other people your age and gender:

You scored higher than 33% on humpers

Link: The how fuckable are you? Test written by ShizzleBitch on Ok Cupid

Torment

2005-04-19T22:14:00.000+08:00

Life has been difficult these days. Especially when your hormones are acting in unison against you. I keep thinking about him these days. Even though I am buried in work and deadlines up to my head, I can't get his face out of my mind. You might even say I am lusting for him. Despite the fact that things cannot happen between the 2 of us, I keep harbouring this longing, this hope that 1 day, my dreams will come true.
Maybe it is just the stress and fatigue that's causing all this upheavals... maybe it is just my dark side taking control temporarily. Maybe I have been secretly plotting subconciously...

你的牵挂，我的负担

2005-04-11T21:20:00.000+08:00

What D&D Character Am I?

2005-04-11T20:31:00.000+08:00

I Am A: Lawful Good Half-Elf Bard Ranger

Alignment:
Lawful Good characters are the epitome of all that is just and good. They believe in order and governments that work for the benefit of all, and generally do not mind doing direct work to further their beliefs.

Race:
Half-Elves are a cross between a human and an elf. They are smaller, like their elven ancestors, but have a much shorter lifespan. They are sometimes looked down upon as half-breeds, but this is rare. They have both the curious drive of humans and the patience of elves.

Primary Class:
Bards are the entertainers. They sing, dance, and play instruments to make other people happy, and, frequently, make money. They also tend to dabble in magic a bit.

Secondary Class:
Rangers are the defenders of nature and the elements. They are in tune with the Earth, and work to keep it safe and healthy.

Deity:
Oghma is the Neutral Good god of knowledge and invention. He is also known as the Binder of What is Known, and is the Patron of Bards. His followers believe that knowledge reigns supreme, and is the basis for everything else that is done. They wear white shirts and pants, with a black and gold braided vest, and a small, box-like hat. All priests of Oghma are known as Loremasters. Oghma's symbol is a scroll.

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Dating Quiz

2005-04-10T12:04:00.000+08:00

Your dating personality profile:

Big-Hearted - You are a kind and caring person. Your warmth is inviting, and your heart is a wellspring of love.
Liberal - Politics matters to you, and you aren't afraid to share your left-leaning views. You would never be caught voting for a conservative candidate.
Practical - You are a down-to-earth individual who is not impressed with material excess. You care about the stuff of like that really matters.

Your date match profile:

Practical - You are drawn to people who are sensible and smart. Flashy, materialistic people turn you off. You appreciate the simpler side of living.
Conservative - Forget liberals, you need a conservative match. Political discussions interest you, and a conservative will offer the viewpoint you need.
Adventurous - You are looking for someone who is willing to try new things and experience life to its fullest. You need a companion who encourages you to take risks and do exciting things.

Your Top Ten Traits

1. Big-Hearted
2. Liberal
3. Practical
4. Adventurous
5. Athletic
6. Wealthy/Ambitious
7. Outgoing
8. Intellectual
9. Sensual
10. Romantic

Your Top Ten Match Traits

1. Practical
2. Conservative
3. Adventurous
4. Shy
5. Athletic
6. Traditional
7. Big-Hearted
8. Sensual
9. Intellectual
10. Funny

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春去春回

2005-02-19T11:53:00.000+08:00

转眼又过了新年。西方情人节刚过，东方情人节就快到了。不知各位的新年是否过得快乐？
我这几年都有新年恐惧症。不是年纪大，怕过年时长辈问起我的终生幸福，而是怕新年前夕，老板“万箭齐发”。我这个老板特别“猫”，什么都要照着她的意思去做（有哪个老板不是这样？），而且她会在最后一分钟还跟你嫌东嫌西，惟恐天下不乱。再加上同事间互有心病，这个年应该是最难过的了。
最近有机会接触到几个秀气可爱的青少年。别看他们外表俊俏，整天嬉皮笑脸，个个都是心事重重。感觉上现在的青少年缺少爱，不懂得爱别人，也不懂得与人沟通，所以在交际和感情方面总会碰到许多问题。要帮助他们吧，自己都不是很在行，也不是很空闲，不帮助他们嘛，又于心不忍。伤脑筋。
不知各位有什么至理名言来教教咱们的下一代？

大城市，小故事

2005-01-30T16:53:00.000+08:00

最近去了国外的一个大城市，见识了不少东西。记得有一个傍晚，我走在街上，突然看见眼前有位女生坐在一个银行的门口，双手抱着双腿，头往怀里缩，一动也不动。仔细一看，女生在地板上用白色粉笔写了一些字，大概说自己来自其他城市，千里迢迢到这寻找姐姐。大概是盘缠不足，希望善心人士资助她，或帮她找姐姐。
我那时没多想，便继续往前走，希望可以找个地方解决晚餐。走了好几家餐厅，心里盘算了几遍，觉得自己没什么本钱吃大餐，便走进一家西果店买了一些饼先充饥，然后回酒店把泡面解决掉。我过了街，在回头的路上又看见那女生。心里为她感到难过，于是多待了一会儿。待了大约五分钟，许多路人都匆匆走过，整条街似乎没人理会那位女生。自己心里想：我和她都是异乡人，可惜自己还要为隔天的消费省点钱，不然我会毫不犹豫给她点钱买晚餐。多想无益，于是离开了那条街，回酒店去了。
这也许是大城市的真实的一面吧。人来人往，要是没有什么亲友在身边，自己要是出了什么事，相信不会有太多人理你。也许很多人都天天看见那女生，但肯定没有多少人会伸出援手帮助她。冬天的冷，莫过于人心的冷。回国之后一直想写，直到今天才“冒死”把工作撇下，先把心里的话说出来。

至少卖火柴的女孩已经和她的婆婆团圆了……

Updates updates

2005-01-25T21:53:00.000+08:00

Pardon for the barrage of personality tests earlier on. It was on a spur of the moment plus I picked up the 1st 2 frm 2 guys I'm attracted to. After which, there was the insatiable thirst to try out more of the tests which caught my eye. Also tot it might offer readers (if any at all) something to read after such a long absence.

Taking personality tests felt good at times. Not being a very reflective person myself, I'm interested in trying out some of those to know how accurate they are and what kind of a person I am to other people. While some were grossly inaccurate, others were kinda close, like one of the earlier ones on LOTR.

Despite the heavy workload and my slow working speed, I shall strive to maintain my blog to keep track of what's going on in my life.

Personality Tests 11

2005-01-21T22:49:00.000+08:00

You scored as Winter. You are WINTER. You're more introspective, thinking deeply, feeling deeply. You love nothing better than to enjoy one on one time with those who are important to you. You are cautious, and sometimes second guess yourself. Dreams, though you have them, are a luxury, because life is not a plaything.

Winter

65%

Spring

50%

Fall

50%

Summer

35%

What Season Are You?
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Personality Tests 10

2005-01-21T22:25:00.000+08:00

You scored as True Vampire. You have the mind set to be a true vampire, but do you have the soul?

True Vampire

67%

Werewolf

50%

Not a vampire at all

42%

Pyschic Vampire

17%

Just a blood fetish

What kind of vampire would you be
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Personality Tests 9

2005-01-21T22:21:00.000+08:00

You scored as Arwen. You're Arwen Evenstar! This elven princess may not get in on too much action, but she's always optimistic and hopeful for the future. She does what she can to help her love, Aragorn, who is off fighting, and is always supportive of him.
"I would rather spend one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone."

Arwen

88%

Samwise

81%

Eowyn

69%

Gandalf

63%

Pippin

56%

Frodo

50%

Aragorn

50%

Gollum

25%

Faramir

13%

Which LOTR character are you?
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Personality Tests 8

2005-01-21T22:15:00.000+08:00

You scored as A MetroHomoSexual. Straight or really, really gay? Metro to the core, but it?s your outward appearance that?s most important. Narcissist? Hell no, you just want to look better and more expensive than everyone else.

Normal, Boring and Gay

30%

A Closet Case

30%

A MetroHomoSexual

30%

An AberHollisterAE Gay or Fratmo

25%

A Jock

What Kind of Gay Man Are You?
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Personality Tests 7

2005-01-21T22:07:00.000+08:00

You scored as Strawberry Shortcake. Don't stand for that new version crap. If you go shortcake, go shortcake all the way. . .

Strawberry Shortcake

58%

Smurf

42%

Voltron

33%

Shera

33%

Transformers

25%

Heman

17%

Thundercats

Which 1980's Cartoon Character are you?
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Personality Test 6

2005-01-21T21:58:00.000+08:00

You scored as Earth. Earth is the predominating element in your life. Earth rules the signs of Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn.

Earth

80%

Water

50%

Air

45%

Fire

35%

Spirit

30%

Which of the Five Elements are you?
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Personality Tests 5

2005-01-21T14:09:00.000+08:00

You scored as Lawful Good. A lawful good person acts as a good person is expected or required to act. They are dedicated to upholding both what is right and what is set down in law.

Lawful Good

90%

Neutral Good

70%

Lawful Neutral

50%

True Neutral

50%

Chaotic Good

45%

Neutral Evil

25%

Chaotic Neutral

20%

Chaotic Evil

10%

Lawful Evil

10%

What is your Alignment?
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Personality Tests 4

2005-01-21T13:58:00.000+08:00

You scored as Celestite. Celestite-types are generally slow-to-anger, focussed social butterflies. Outgoing yet balance, never shy but still take time to think. They tend to excel at organisation skills, not afraid to speak up but thankfully, too composed to shout and scorch people with a fiery temper!

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Celestite

66%

Emerald

60%

Garnet

57%

Athemyst

57%

Ruby

54%

Aquamarine

50%

Topaz

47%

Peridot

43%

Which Mystic Gem Stone Relates To You?
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Personality Tests 3

2005-01-21T13:52:00.000+08:00

Your Element Is Air

You dislike conflict, and you've been able to rise above the angst of the world.
And when things don't go your way, you know they'll blow over quickly.

Easygoing, you tend to find joy from the simple things in life.
You roll with the punches, and as a result, your life is light and cheerful.

You find it easy to adapt to most situations, and you're an open person.
With you, what you see is what you get... and people love that!

What's Your Element?

Personality Tests 2

2005-01-21T13:41:00.000+08:00

You Are 22 Years Old

22

Under 12: You are a kid at heart. You still have an optimistic life view - and you look at the world with awe.

13-19: You are a teenager at heart. You question authority and are still trying to find your place in this world.

20-29: You are a twentysomething at heart. You feel excited about what's to come... love, work, and new experiences.

30-39: You are a thirtysomething at heart. You've had a taste of success and true love, but you want more!

40+: You are a mature adult. You've been through most of the ups and downs of life already. Now you get to sit back and relax.

What Age Do You Act?

Personality Tests

2005-01-21T13:31:00.000+08:00

Which Naruto Character Are You?
Test by naruto - kun.com

阿公辩论会　（教育篇）

2004-11-28T22:12:00.000+08:00

最近“阿公”在“辩论会”上宣布了不少政策，教育啦，医药啦……看来新加坡将来几年会有不少改革。阿公说，老师教华文得引起学生的兴趣，而且家长可以在母语与英语之间自由选择哪个语言比较重要。小学教华文时也会先教听说后教读写。

老实说，自从本人在中学求学开始，新加坡什么价格和品质都有所提高，只有华文是“有下没上”。有时为老一辈感到难过，要他们看着自己的子孙个个的华文水平一代不如一代，华文传统不受重视，一定很不是滋味。也为我国的华文教师感到担忧。华文教学的要求在我国越来越高，老师要使尽法宝来引起学生学习华文的兴趣，真不简单。听说已经有几所中学已经开始进行改革，减少课程内容，增加一些趣味性课程。要是对政府机构有点了解的人都明白政策的推行在于执行改革的基层能不能够接受政策。我国样样讲求效率，有时下属为了达到目标，就会做个样子。通过数据的汇报来向上司交待。但愿我国华文教育不会遭到同样下场。不知道我国华文程度什么时候能够提升到以前的水平呢？家长们，在华文还没在我国被列为受保护之前，赶紧觉悟吧！

忙忙忙……烦烦烦

2004-11-28T21:49:00.000+08:00

虽然这阵子工作蛮轻松，但在家里没闲着。再过几天就得准备出国，看来接下来几天又不能写什么了。

现在家外头十分嘈杂，因为附近的居委会主办活动，让居民引吭高歌。谁知这里的居民各个都是内家高手，各个声若洪钟，竟然与附近六、七座组屋的居民分享他们的歌曲。什么老歌、民谣、马来歌、印度歌样样齐全，只有拍子和音调不准罢了。想要看电视节目都难。希望音响系统出故障，居民们的耳根就清静多了。

复杂

2004-11-22T01:42:00.000+08:00

这个世界真别扭。时常听到某某人喜欢某某人，但对方不喜欢他。今天和一个朋友聊了一阵子，他似乎对感情感到绝望了，因为他的心碎了。这也难怪，他的心被一个男生和一个女生打破了。在错综复杂的同志圈里，这种现象应该非常普遍。以前就已经知道我国同志圈一向注重外表。长得眉清目秀的总是抢手货，为人也往往比较“曳”，甚至泼辣。因此任何感情若是能够在这个圈子持久，我们应该推荐给健力士记录。即使在大部分的人群中，类似的状况也屡见不鲜。看来国人真的应该去拜月老，让他为大家牵红线，让所有人能够各得其所，岂不妙哉？

泡汤

2004-11-15T01:39:00.000+08:00

一直很想去SPA松懈松懈，只是还没找一家并成为永久会员。其实是想先找个伴，然后两人一起成为会员，那就可以一起去给人伺候，该有多好呀！

要不就两人乘船去民丹岛，租下一个度假屋，过着一个浪漫悠闲的假期，然后一起享受按摩。真是快乐赛神仙！

大家有什么好的建议吗？不妨告诉我……

荒芜的黄昏

2004-11-15T01:29:00.000+08:00

感觉越来越懒了……先与大家分享另外一首歌：

《黄昏》周传雄

过完整个夏天　忧伤并没有好一些
开车行驶在公路　无际无边　要离开自己的感觉
唱不完一首歌　疲倦还剩下黑眼圈
感情的世界伤害在所难免　黄昏再美总要黑夜
依然记得从你口中说出再见　坚决如铁
黄昏中有种热烈灼身的错觉
黄昏的地平线　画出一句离别　爱情进入永夜　
依然记得从你眼中滑落的泪　伤心欲绝
混乱中有种热泪烧伤的错觉
黄昏的地平线　割断幸福喜悦
相爱已经幻灭

最近总是喜欢听一些悲伤哀怨的歌，正好反映自己的内心世界。有时担心会把大家给闷死了，不过后来再想想，日记本来就是自己的内心话嘛，哪需要在乎有没有人看？就是那么在乎别人对自己的看法，真受不了！

如今桌子一堆垃圾，要是自己再不收拾，恐怕迟早会惹人唠叨……但是自己这几天总在外头，没啥时间，无奈无奈。与其说无奈，不如说总是有更想做的东西。相信许多人也会同意我的说法，对吗？

至少还有……谁？

2004-11-07T14:34:00.000+08:00

好久没上网写东西了。有多少次就是上了网，只是心里不想写。

与其说不想，不如说怕。

怕什么？怕写来写去都是一堆怨言。虽说古人的诗有不少是发牢骚，但别人可是才子，是文人、是骚客。我只不过是个普通人。读者读多了可能都觉得这里有一股闷气，多看一眼就会憋死人。

今天总算拾起心情／勇气，与大家分享自己心爱的一首歌：

《至少还有你》林忆莲
我怕来不及　我要抱着你
直到感觉你的皱纹　有了岁月的痕迹
直到肯定你是真的　直到失去力气
为了你　我愿意

动也不能动　也要看着你
直到感觉你的发线　有了白雪的痕迹
直到视线变得模糊　直到不能呼吸
让我们　形影不离

如果　全世界我也可以放弃
至少还有你　值得我去珍惜
而你在这里　就是生命的奇迹
也许　全世界我也可以忘记
就是不愿意　失去你的消息
你掌心的痣　我总记得在那里

我怕来不及　我要抱着你
直到感觉你的发线　有了白雪的痕迹
直到视线变得模糊　直到不能呼吸
让我们　形影不离

我们好不容易　我们身不由己
我怕时间太快　不够将你看仔细
我怕时间太慢　日夜担心失去你
恨不得一夜之间白头　永不分离

得这首歌的歌词很有意思，林夕的词总让人另眼相看。歌手以前还有一个“他”，但如今她也和我一样，没有一个让她说“至少还有你”的人。

是执著？是无奈？是悲哀？是解脱？是空虚。

玩到　笑　看　人生

2004-10-26T23:08:00.000+08:00

最近精神状态极差……不是因为工作压力或赶期限，而是因为一放工回到家里便泡在电脑前面。感觉相似回到了求学时期沉迷于电脑游戏的样子。有时觉得做男生命过得很简单，不是玩耍，就是谈恋爱，要不就是追足球队。当然，还有一些是忙着看电影，运动，赛车，打架闹事，喝酒，浏览黄色网站……但是要尽管男生的活动都围绕着“玩”的主题，要找到一个能够与自己分享相同的的喜好的伴侣却一点也不简单。找异性嘛，对方往往不能够理解咱们的脾气，找同性嘛，本地又不赞同同性关系。即使是家里的兄弟姐妹的嗜好都会有差异。难怪古人要说“酒逢知己千杯少”。现时生活既不是《三国》里的刘关张，也不是《水浒》里的好汉，又怎么有那么多好兄弟呢？可能古人需要那么为维持家庭着想，不需要担心房屋贷款是否能够偿还，才有那么多闲情去享受生活中的点滴吧？

“一壶浊酒喜相逢，古今多少事，都付笑谈中”

华山论剑

2004-10-23T11:04:00.000+08:00

本人前阵子去华山论剑了……哎呀，不是到中国。其实前阵子工作蛮忙的，现在终于松一口气了。为了慰劳自己，就拼命出去吃东西、逛街和玩电脑游戏。看来我修为尚浅，因为和许多功力相近的人较量后，自己总是寇。（成王败寇嘛……）虽然许多人都想争着做天下第一，这似乎不是我的“命”。尽管自己多努力，都无法与人争。可能是资质不如人吧，也可能是技术比人差。无论如何，玩游戏就是要玩得开心，难道不是吗？所以我一玩起来就没日夜……
好在现在有空挡，就赶紧上来寒暄几句，过后再去拼搏厮杀。
眼看年底将近，工作也完成了，是时候为自己做打算。得好好休息休息，玩个痛快！

爱＿多过爱自己

2004-10-13T23:27:00.000+08:00

问题一：人总是在失去之后才懂得珍惜。（是／否）
刚才听了93.3的“弦歌寄意”，主持人也是这么说的。不知读者们有什么感受？我觉得这句话确实反映了一些人的心态。"Familiarity breeds contempt"，连洋鬼子都这么说，难道会假？
问题二：我宁愿＿爱我多一点。／我会爱＿多一点。
嗯……这个就挺有意思的。当然最理想的就是双方的爱是平等的，但谁叫咱们是凡夫俗子？事情往往没有平等的……要是我真的能够找到一个理想对象，我一定会爱＿多于爱自己。
问题三：如果得选择，我宁愿：
1）＿提出分手。
2）我提出分手。
3）双方同时提出分手。
4）你想得美！哪有那么多选择？　　（　　）
我选择……（1）。如果真的那么爱＿，我没有理由提出分手。即使是＿不对，我会不忍心伤害别人。
不知道为什么，最近总是郁郁寡欢。也许自己的老毛病又来袭。对什么情感都特别敏感。改天得记得跟孟婆讨一瓮的汤水。自己喝一碗，其他就由我来代理经销。（欸，天气怎么转凉了？）（不是啦，是有人讲了冷笑话，笨蛋！）（哦……，他刚才讲什么？）（！！！…………）
　

回馈

2004-10-11T21:57:00.000+08:00

相信有一小搓人在浏览我的网上日记，我在此表示由衷感谢。可惜的是本人对电脑的认识有限，因此无论在设计外表还是网址的功能方面有许多不足之处，希望读者们多多包含。最令我感到遗憾的是我察觉到自己有时无法阅读一些读者所留下的回馈。就好象我前阵子写了“新欢旧爱，天长地久”之后，有两个回馈，但到现在为止都无法看到他们所写的东西。由于这个状况不只限于我的日记，我在用另一架电脑浏览其他人的日记时也碰倒类似问题，因此我已经反映给有关当局，希望他们能够解决这个问题。（哇，口吻好象中学时期的应用文！）
虽然至今仍然等待救兵，但我还是得请读者们多多指教，也欢迎读者们发电邮给我。

周末周末

2004-10-11T21:27:00.000+08:00

周末本来就是应该用来享受的，但许多人都把时间花在工作上，除了我以外……自己本来就慢吞吞了，再加上缺乏自律和推动力，那工作的完成就是遥遥无期了。
最近看了日本卡通《废弃公主》。本以为是纯神话卡通，谁知后来竟然出现战舰，炮弹，甚至矩阵！卡通主题和电影 "The Matrix"蛮接近的，在讲述人类和来自外太空的生物作战，还创造了不少杀伤力强大的智慧形武器来帮助他们。谁知道其中一些竟然背叛人类，后来还创造了一个类似地球中世纪的世界让人类受他们的武器管辖。要是读者还没猜到，身为主角的公主就是世界的“救世主”。真是太巧了吧？
嗯，不知道是先有电影还是先有卡通呢？虽说我看的卡通不多，但还是觉得《罗德岛战记》还是最好的一部。故事蛮感人，有魔法，有龙，夫复何求？我欣赏男主角对爱人的执著和男女主角关系的微妙变化，也能够从他身上看到自己对情的“痴”。

偷得浮生半日闲

2004-10-07T23:02:00.000+08:00

这几天的生活还蛮写意的……下班后还能和同事逛街喝茶。幸亏今天在工作方面已进入“奋战”状态，要不然下个星期可能就要给人追杀了……
下午边喝茶边工作时，就和同事分享了自己理想的休闲活动：坐在PCC的沙发上慢慢品尝咖啡，看看杂志或小说，观察路过的行人。要不就在晚上驾车到处兜风，然后和一群好友去吃夜宵。够逍遥吧？盼望那天早点到来。

长江之后浪前浪

2004-10-06T16:01:00.000+08:00

以前常听人家说：“长江后浪推前浪，一代新人换旧人“。几年前却听到现代“改良”版：“长江后浪推前浪，前浪死在沙滩上。”
昨天和我的老师聊了一会儿，一边赞赏我的师弟，一边吐出心里的醋。是心有余而力不足也好，是自己资质底还是不够努力也罢，心里总会觉得羡慕和遗憾。人家长得比我好看，学东西比我快，歌唱得比我好，我拿什么跟人家比呀？也许在这位师弟身上看到自己昔日的影子，因此能够了解他想学但不够时间学，同时特别希望他能够在各个方面都有杰出的表现。除此以外，我们队伍中少有年轻人，难得有一些共同话题，所以和他比较谈得来。只要他肯下苦功，我相信他应该能够成为老师门下最杰出的学徒。或许有朝一日，我还得向他讨教呢！后生可畏呀！

新欢旧爱，天长地久

2004-10-04T20:38:00.000+08:00

憋了几天，有些想法不吐不快。不知读者们选择天长地久还是曾经拥有？本人追求完美，向往古人的“长相厮守”。也许觉得独自一个人不够意思，总希望能够找到心目中的对象。因此尽管尽力保持乐观开朗，心里不时会觉得空虚，很想把所有的精神和爱都寄托在心上人身上，无奈目前八字都还没一撇。
曾经尝试认多一点人，总以为迟早一定会碰倒一个，但总是以失望收场，够失败了吧？经历多了，便渐渐不敢对任何人抱有太大希望。要是早几年，可能刚认识一个人后便一头栽进去，直到烧伤才知难而退。现在虽然比较收敛，但本人自认是比较感性的，因此有时心中还是难免起波澜。我只希望有人能够重新点燃我心中的火苗，给我一道曙光……

非黑非白，非好非歹

2004-10-04T20:11:00.000+08:00

本来昨天就想要写点东西，无奈通书说科技与我相冲，得暂停一天……哈哈瞎掰完毕。昨天不知怎么了，尝试了几次都不能进入写日记的界面。结果只得展延到今天。其实工作的期限已到，还有很多工作等着我去办，但最近几周总提不起劲去做。看来我要是练丐帮的打狗棒法，“拖”字诀肯定威力无比。
尽管工作缠身，我还是“不知死”约了朋友去喝下午茶，还在朋友家逗留至晚饭之后才舍得回家。也许是塞翁失马吧，竟然给我找到一个蛮旧的卡带。我的那位中学同学在中学时期收了不少卡带和光碟，大半现在已经绝版，因此给我碰上真是三生有幸！其中有电影《太极张三丰》的原声带。“有影无？”（福建话）竟然听那么cheena的音乐？而且还是与太极拳有关的！在下从小就喜欢武术，但又不喜欢挨痛，因此特别偏爱太极拳。要是读者看太多《倚天屠龙记》，一定以为在下是看了该戏才喜欢太极拳的。虽然对武术有兴趣，但认为最近播映的连续剧不忍足睹。现在想和大家分享原声带里头的《随缘》：

刀光剑影不是我门派　天空再阔自有我风采
双手一推　非黑也非白
不好也不坏　没有胜又何来败
没有去哪有来
手中无剑心中无尘　才是我胸怀
随缘而去乘风而来　才是我胸怀

唇枪舌剑不合我姿态　天空再阔才是我风采
双手一推　非虚也非实
不慢也不快　没有胜又何来败
没有动哪有静
手中无剑心中无尘　才是我胸怀
随缘而去乘风而来　才是我胸怀

歌词看似简单，但我觉得蛮有意思的。也许是自己的资质有限，总觉得歌词和《道德经》的精神有点接近。由于《道德经》里头的道理太玄，因此像我这样的凡夫俗子就选择类似《随缘》的精神吧。许多人说道家思想很消极，但我选择将它理解为“顺其自然”。其中的意义挺值得读者们慢慢咀嚼……

看我七十二变

2004-10-01T23:55:00.000+08:00

咳，今天难得去买了两件衬衫，到家时却听见母亲说我穿着不需要太多花样，应该朴素一点。她也埋怨我的衣服太多，简直多过表演艺人。看来我还未发挥“夸张”二字的要诀我妈已经捷足先登了。接着她又嫌我的衣柜里的衣服都是暗淡颜色，应该多买一些颜色较浅，较鲜艳的衣服。真是莫名其妙……
若盲目顺从，我岂不是象邓小平答应香港一样：“50年不变”？而且家中二老时常盼望我能够早日找到一个伴侣，以了了他们的一庄心事。要是我听他们的话，我想自己会因为整天穿同样衣服而都没脸出去见人。
尽管遇到阻力，我会继续为自己的衣柜添置一些衣服，直到我有足够的颜色为止。至少可以让我挑选不同颜色来反映自己每天的心情。这应该不会太过分吧？

《魔戒三部曲》之《王者再临》

2004-09-29T22:44:00.000+08:00

昨天恰巧有一个长得蛮可爱晚辈来问我《魔戒》第三集的加长版DVD什么时候出炉。自己曾在周末查看网站，虽见到广告，但空手而回。后来不肯罢休，再次进入网站，才看见最新的说明。图片竟然显示了收藏家的版本附上刚多城的模型，这简直是喜从天降，喜出望外！几个月前还跟同事们说如果有那座城的模型该有多好。自己和他人都认为这是梦想，想不到竟然能够如愿以偿，真是大快人心！看来我这个《魔戒》发烧友的愿望都一一实现了：要根多夫的剑和两位法师的魔杖都买到了，现在又即将收集到那座城的模型……

不知读者中有谁也是《魔戒》发烧友吗？

成就

2004-09-29T22:06:00.000+08:00

写了好几篇的日记，所收到的评语都还不错，心里感到高兴：终于有人看了！起初还蛮担心的，担心读者会嫌日记内容太沉闷，语法太烂。尽管浏览量不大，但能够有一点正面的回馈总是好的！至少能鼓励我继续努力，与读者分享我生命中的点点滴滴。有人浏览是好事，有人能够和我分享共同嗜好更好，但最好不过的就是读者能够了解我，好让我能够找到一个伴侣！要知道在这茫茫人海中找到一个自己喜欢，又喜欢自己的人往往比登天还难。现代的人又缺乏沟通，因此说不定大家每天都在上演《向左走，向右走》的情景那该有何等悲哀啊！

希望大家努力去寻找自己的幸福吧！

中秋

2004-09-28T13:52:00.000+08:00

一年一度的中秋又到了。祝愿大家中秋节快乐。
不知今时今日还有谁会在月下许愿，盼望找到自己心目中的伴侣？还是象李白一样，“对饮成三人”？

千呼万唤……变不出来

2004-09-26T23:09:00.000+08:00

这天应该有一大段话要说，但可能漏了一个步骤，结果这天的日记就应验了它的标题：“变不出来”！依稀记得自己在周末吊儿郎当，不务正业，始终无法定下心来认真工作，真差劲。我想再过几天，当十万火急，迫在眉睫时，再辛苦都得把任务赶出来了……到时候应该没时间写日记，或已经给上司或同僚宰了煮咖哩吃了……

Online Gaming

2004-09-26T13:36:00.000+08:00

A hectic week has passed. Saturday was my rest & relax day... so it's finally off to online gaming. However, things weren't so easy, coz the host server had specific timings as to when it will host the game, so sometimes, we gamers are "thrown" out of the server when it is shutdown time. Plus you only earn a pitiful amount of experience when you kill something big, it makes one wonder, why do we slog so much? Even a pair of magical boots costs 50000 gold. I guess it's always good to set up business in an online game. At least you dun have to worry about being killed and losing gold and experience points.

疲惫

2004-09-24T18:33:00.000+08:00

今天感觉非常累。可能是前天没睡好，昨天又休息不够，因此今天提不起劲。到了下午，心情也变得忧郁了。可能是孤独症又在发作，又苦无良药，或者是在工作碰到了一些不愉快的事，做什么都没啥心情。
也许两个星期后，当手头上的工作都完成后，可能就可以喘口气，去外头透透气。现在嘛，四个字：坚持到底。

期限、限期

2004-09-22T23:04:00.000+08:00

最近有不少人都得应付工作上的期限。感觉有点象服兵役时，军官常说的：“Rush to wait, wait to rush”

与其说生命就象一个长跑，不如说工作就象玩“PacMan”，老是给“鬼”追……随着压力的增加，周围的人的脾气似乎越来越坏。上司对下属施加压力，朋友之间的磨擦变得频繁些。欸，大家应该喘口气，喝喝凉茶，多听一些舒缓紧张情绪的音乐。这样可能能够延长所有人的寿命呢。

几天前大量“进货”，买了不少光碟，其中值得一提的是喜多郎的精选集。一向蛮喜欢他的音乐，但当年只买了《丝绸之路》和《古事记》两个专集。虽然精选不能让我体会到每个专集的精神，但至少有佳作可欣赏。象《天与地》的主旋律就挺激昂的，而《响宴》更是耳熟能详的曲子，只可惜在本地沦落为喜筵上菜的开场音乐。喜多郎的音乐能够挑动我的心弦，让我真正领悟到音乐是能够感受得到的。

可能因平日听歌曲总是有点模糊，因此在听任何音乐时都凭“感觉”二字。有时一边听音乐，一边在心里构想一个画面。恩雅的《树的记忆》就曾让我幻想许久。许茹云的《日光机场》也是如此。英国歌手Sting的《沙漠玫瑰》甚至让我构思了一个MTV！“哇，会不会有点夸张呀？”说起来可能有点不可思议，但我有时的确是感受一首曲子的“感觉”，因此评语总会很主观。

由于现在还在赶工，因此一边工作，一边听音乐。咳！漫漫长夜，就让音乐伴我熬过吧！

十七岁的天空

2004-09-21T23:18:00.000+08:00

今天的标题是一部台湾同志电影的名称。以下是它的网址－Formula 17　听说它是一部喜剧片，而且剧情也非常理想化，但我想演员俊俏的容貌及同志们对寻得理想伴侣的渴望应该足以吸引不少人去下载这部电影。有时我在想：人们究竟是在生活中寻找自己的梦想，还是在梦境中寻找自己的生活？当然，于此相关的也包括：“是在乎天长地久，还是希望曾经拥有？”我追求完美，希望天长地久，因为曾经拥有总给我一种酸溜溜的感觉。抹不去的遗憾总是多过昔日的美好回忆。也许是我太在乎，不能“看破，放下”。
明天又是新的一天，希望我能修复自己的心情，从新面对这个花花世界吧。

Wishes, anyone?

2004-09-20T22:38:00.000+08:00

Alright, I'm just satisfying my complusion to say a little bit more about myself... so here's a list of what I've spent my time thinking about:

幸福是什么？
· 能够做自己想做的东西
· 生活一帆风顺，没有挫折
· 享受自由（驾车，夜间场所，家长的信任）
· 能够找到一个投缘的知己
· 知足长乐
· 身体健康强壮
· 明白生命的意义
· 拥有智慧，把幸福带给自己，也带给身边的人

Hope I'm not sounding too loud on the moral side. But I believe that if I can find happiness and share it with people around me, I'll be creating a happier environment for myself and people who matter to me. When people feel better, life will be so much better for everyone, right?

Just a few things I hope to do:

· 在晚间驾车兜风，和朋友一同吃夜宵
· 和好友饮茶聊天
· 找到知心的心上人，并和心上人一起看星星、赏月、吹海风、共进晚餐

也许是心里的空虚在作祟，但有时看到别人（像xiaogou那样）过得很幸福，自己难免会羡慕……看了看以上的清单，不难察觉我所寻找的是生活中最基本，最简单的东西，但也可能是最珍贵，也是最容易被人们忽略的。

希望大家都能找到自己的幸福吧！

Yet Another Day

2004-09-20T22:22:00.000+08:00

Another day passes by... I've been sick for almost 3 weeks now... looks like the antibiotics can't clear my system totally... sigh...

Thinking what tomorrow may hold for me only makes me feel that the past few days seem like holidays to me. Well, at least I don't have to face pesky people and get irritated by them or get upset by unreasonable things.

It's times like this when you wish that the year ends right now and you can just fly off for holidays, enjoying cool sea breeze and good sunshine, sipping a glass of cool pineapple juice. But all that have to wait.

中秋回忆

2004-09-20T22:13:00.000+08:00

尽管工作繁忙，我还是觉得心里有好多话，却苦于没适合的听众。“这难道不就是我选择上网写日记的理由吗？”咳…………转眼就要到中秋了，看来又要勾起不少回忆……

《青玉案》（元夕）　辛弃疾

东风夜放花千树，更吹落、星如雨。
宝马雕车香满路。凤箫声动，玉壶光转，一夜鱼龙舞。

蛾儿雪柳黄金缕，笑语盈盈暗香去。
众里寻他千百度。蓦然回首，那人却在，灯火阑珊处。

　　每当中秋，我都会想起这首词，尤其是最后两句名言……心里难免有些遗憾。可能现在还多加了点空虚吧……

I, Me & Myself

2004-09-20T14:30:00.000+08:00

Just to furnish a little more about myself... I've taken this personality test a few years ago, but have forgotten the website. If someone finds it familiar, please let me know the website, ok? :)

Your Lord of the Rings character is...... Legolas

There's a yearning in your soul, isn't there? Like the littlest Hobo, like Legolas the elf. There's something that compels you to keep searching. You're looking for spiritual fulfillment and like most long-term wanderers through life, you have a "travel light" sensibility. More interested in mystical than material things, you live closer to Heaven than most dead people. Which doesn't always go down famously with the living. If you could just disguise your disgust at their more earthly habits.
Not that you're all floaty and whimsical. Not at all. In fact, your rejection of worldly things make you fearless and strong. You recognise that the important things in life are carried around inside you and not on your back. In the face of danger, hardships and despair, you are a rock.
But being the restless type that you are, you find that you sometimes fall prey to a certain sorrow. When the quarters of the moon and the tides of the sea pull you away, you find you leave behind people who matter. And there is some regret.

Well, not that I'm that fantastic, but I guess this personality test is one of those which I feel best describes me. Besides, it doesn't hurt to resemble someone I admire in LOTR. I've tried several personality tests, and there're always certain questions which doesn't really fit in this part of the world, or it maybe something I'm not quite sure of. Just make the best of it I guess, so that's why personality tests aren't always reliable, given the complexities of the human mind.

The First

2004-09-20T09:30:00.000+08:00

Well, this is my first attempt at blogging, so I guess there will be more coming up... if my soul is not fully absorbed in work, that is.

The Sanctuary

The Klein Sexual Orientation Grid

Klein Sexual Orientation Grid

Meaning

Summary

The Multidimensional Scale of Sexuality

The Multidimensional Scale of Sexuality

Complete set of results

Information

The Five Love Languages

The Five Love Languages

Complete set of results

Information

Your Handwriting

Visited Countries

Traveller Profile

Your travel type: Travel Yup

top destinations:

stay away from:

It's the time of the year again

FCUK Test

Torment

你的牵挂，我的负担

What D&D Character Am I?

Dating Quiz

春去春回

大城市，小故事

Updates updates

Personality Tests 11

Personality Tests 10

Personality Tests 9

Personality Tests 8

Personality Tests 7

Personality Test 6

Personality Tests 5

Personality Tests 4

Personality Tests 3

Personality Tests 2

Personality Tests

阿公辩论会 （教育篇）

忙忙忙……烦烦烦

复杂

泡汤

荒芜的黄昏

至少还有……谁？

玩到 笑 看 人生

华山论剑

爱＿多过爱自己

回馈

周末周末

偷得浮生半日闲

长江之后浪前浪

新欢旧爱，天长地久

非黑非白，非好非歹

看我七十二变

《魔戒三部曲》之《王者再临》

成就

中秋

千呼万唤……变不出来

Online Gaming

疲惫

期限、限期

十七岁的天空

Wishes, anyone?

Yet Another Day

中秋回忆

I, Me & Myself

The First

阿公辩论会　（教育篇）

玩到　笑　看　人生